I could go on and on for days with answers to this but I will try and keep is short and simple.. which is pretty much how I would wrap up my suggestions for your photos... nothing is ever simple but here are some tips. Engagement photos: Choose a location that has meaning for both of you, make sure that there is not a lot of "junk" in the background that will draw attention away from you, after all, the whole reason for your photos is to highlight the two of you! If you choose a place that has interesting stuff, that is exactly what your viewer is going to be looking at. If all else fails...pick a location that your photographer suggests. Wedding Photography:... this is easy... choose a photographer that you like! It's that simple. You are going to be spending 6-8+ hours with this person.. you don't want someone who is a jerk, always unaccounted for, out smoking or trying to pick up your maid of honor. Interview your photographer, do your homework and ask a LOT of questions! Also, assign someone in your bridal party or a close family member to be the "spokesperson" to organize and gather the family members and guests that the bride and groom want/need for posed photos. This will alleviate the stress on you. You get what you pay for in most instances. Your wedding photos are the most important photos of your life (well, besides that new car... new baby... amazing dinner.. well, you get the point) so think this one out!